Beginning and history: St. Paul’s ministry of loving those who are sick, lonely, and dying at the Bayside and Woodside Nursing Homes began because of the example of loving kindness shown by one of our parishioners. This dear man fed and cared daily for his bedridden wife; he continued this unselfish ministry every day for many years until she died. This faithful husband also loved both the staff of over-worked nurses and aides, and visited and comforted many of the other residents with hugs, positive words, and prayers. He continues to speak often of the many sick and lonely people who need visits at the nursing homes.

Several years ago, another parishioner who was suffering from heart disease was transferred to Bayside after having a stroke. Two of St. Paul’s lay eucharistic ministers were asked to take her communion, to give her our Lord’s strength and peace to cope with her suffering. This devout and remarkable lady and the two lay eucharistic ministers grew to love each other, and the needs of the other residents also became abundantly clear. An opportunity to minister to those in great need was being provided.

Present ministry: A ministry which began with one faithful husband and two lay eucharistic ministers continues with clergy and lay eucharistic ministers from St. Paul's. On Sundays, lay eucharistic ministers lead a communion service at Bayside at 2:30 p.m. Several parishioners  assist clergy and lay eucharistic ministers in loving the many residents who attend the Bayside service, and then visiting those who are confined to their rooms. 

The most important ministry: Visiting the residents during the week, developing loving friendships, and continuing to visit and help these people who are sick, lonely and facing death is by far the most important ministry. Spending time with the patients who are struggling, and building a trust between the minister and resident can open the door for the love of God to shine in both people’s hearts. The love that is given back, and the knowledge of God’s concrete presence, are the ongoing rewards of this ministry.

An invitation: We need volunteers to spend time making room visits to comfort and build loving relationships with people who will love them back more than they can imagine. The jobs are too deep to be put in words.

Contact Fred Stimson, Lay Eucharistic Minister.