From Don's Desk
From now until Easter is the holiest, most sacred, most wonderful, most
meaningful time of the year for many followers of our Lord, including
me, and the busiest for many pastors, including me, but I can’t get the
tragedy of war and the victims of war out of my mind and my heart. In
that spirit I share with you:
A GRAMPA'S WAR PRAYER
May God the Father Who created you, Jadon Donald
Carlson (+), Brandon Michael Mang (+) and Cameron Matthew Mang
(+), may our Lord Jesus Christ, Who died on the cross for you to
redeem you and make you His own, may the Holy Spirit Who lives in you
since your baptism (+), bless you and keep you this day and every
day until the ending of days.
Three years ago the President of the United States
made it clear that our nation was going to war. The next morning your
grandmother and I prayed for the Camerons and Brandons and Jadons of
the world with heavy hearts. Grandma's eyes were red with tears as we
realized that many Brandons and Camerons and Jadons would be hurt and
killed and bereaved in the days and weeks and months that were to come.
We were terribly shaken when it dawned on us that boys the same age as
Cameron and Brandon would be combatants, and some would blow themselves
up in suicide attacks and some would be used as human shields.
I haven't been able to get that out of my mind these
three years. I am sad. Very sad. Lord, have mercy. Let us pray:
Our Father, Father of all nations and of all
peoples, Father of mercies, I prayfor the Jadons and Brandons and
Camerons of the world. I pray for American children, and I pray for
Iraqi children. I pray for all the children whose bodies have
been and continue to be and will be blown to smithereens by bombs and
other explosives, whose little bodies have been and continue to be and
will be shot through with bullets, whether the bombs and the bullets
are ours or those of other nations in the "coalition of the
willing" or those we demonize as our enemies. I am sad. Very sad. Lord,
have mercy.
Generous Father in Whom there is no shadow of
darkness, I pray for the Brandons and Camerons and Jadons whose daddies
and mommies and brothers and sisters and uncles and aunts and grandmas
and grandpas will die. I grieve for the hugs and kisses they will never
get from them, because they are dead, for all the cuddles and snuggles
they will never get from them, for the hours they will not be able to
play with them or learn from them, because they are dead. I am sad.
Very sad. Lord, have mercy.
Oh, God Who is love, I pray for the Camerons and
Jadons and Brandons who will go hungry, who will not have clean water
to drink, whose homes and hospitals and schools will be destroyed,
whose neighborhoods will be without electricity and any semblance of
safety and security. I am sad. Very sad. Lord, have mercy.
Father, our Father, Heavenly Father of all the
Jadons and Camerons and Brandons of the world, it would appear that we
are committed to killing and maiming and mutilating more and more of
the Brandons and Camerons and Jadons of the world, American and Iraqi,
to protect and expand what we call the American way of life. The last I
heard, over 2,000 Americans have already died in this war, and how many
thousand have been injured, and estimates of Iraqi's killed (from all
war-related causes) range from 30,000 to over 100,000 (our government
doesn't give us that information). I don't have the words to say
how sad I am. It helps me to know that you are even sadder, that Your
Fatherly heart breaks as Your human children suffer and die in their
stupid, insane wars. I'm pretty sure You wept when Pharaoh's army
drowned in the Red Sea, even as You wept over the bitter servitude of
Your people in the land of bondage. And I'm pretty sure You are
weeping now for all the Jadons and Brandons and Camerons of the world,
American and Iraqi and Palestinian and Israeli, all the sons and
daughters of the world who die prematurely, who suffer unconscionably,
who exist, but never really have a life. I am very sad. It helps to
know You are sad too. You do know what it feels like, don't You. You
lost a son didn't You. On a cross. Why do we have to keep crucifying
Your human children over and over again on a cross we keep making for
ourselves? Lord, have mercy.
Note: This prayer was originally written to be
offered at a worship service at Bethel Lutheran Church, Encino,
California in March of 2003. The prayer was revised after Memorial Day
weekend. 2005. At that time my grandson Jadon Donald Carlson had just
celebrated his fifth birthday and grandsons Brandon Michael Mang
and Cameron Matthew Mang were fifteen years old and had just been
confirmed in their home congregation in Littleton, Colorado.
~Don