The Deacon’s View
“Surfboards and Mending Baskets”
Remember when every home had a mending basket? It was usually
located near the chair where mother or grandmother sat. It held
socks with holes and balls of “darning cotton”, plus a wooden “thing”
that helped to keep the sock in shape while it was being mended.
My Grandmother taught me how to darn. It was a delicate art of
weaving. First the sock’s hole had to be opened over the wooden
insert, and then a fine web of threads was created to make a grid.
Using this grid, the needle then began the careful work of weaving—not
too tight, or the result would be an uncomfortable knot; but, not too
loose, or you’d still end up with a hole. A skilled darner made
the sock almost like new.
I had long-forgotten this ancient domestic skill (we now live in an age
where socks with holes are tossed and replaced with new without so much
as a thought), until our fourteen year old grandson's recent surfing
accident. In a large wave, he was tossed off his board, which
then flew through the air and hit him, fin-first, squarely in the
face. At the hospital, a plastic surgeon tackled a slash that
went from Sam’s eye to his upper lip. The surgeon could have been
trained by my Grandmother. Starting first with the deepest layer
of torn tissue, he began to delicately stitch, not too tight, not too
loose. Then he’d move to the next layer, and the next until he
reached the surface. Like Grandmother’s socks, Sam is almost like
new.
What does all this have to do with us at St. Paul’s in this season of
Easter? Pay attention to the great words from Psalm 139:13-15
“For you, O God, created my inward being; you knit me together in my
mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and
wonderfully made...when I was woven together.”
These words speak to me not only of God’s creating power, but also of
God’s great healing power. In each of our lives there is always
the need for on-going healing and restoring. We become most aware
of our need of physical healing. But we remain pretty clueless
about the deepest parts of ourselves that also need to be mended
carefully and skillfully by the Great physician who knows us better
than we can know ourselves. On Easter Sunday we all shouted
enthusiastically, “He is risen. The Lord is risen indeed!” If
these are words we truly believe, then we know that the One who can
heal us is ALIVE and AVAILABLE. Perhaps the best prayer any of us
can pray is, “Lord, heal that part of me that most needs it, and help
me to cooperate with your mending.” Chances are that God will
start somewhere deep inside us, a place where we have unraveled, but
have grown so used to it that we are no longer aware of the pain.
At first, we won’t know anything is happening. But god is slowly
preparing the grid so that the re-weaving can begin. With God
doing the mending, we are made good as new.
The Lord is Risen indeed.
Your Deacon,
Gay
Blundell